Hey There
Hi, I’m Constantinos Lytras, I am a recovering people pleasure. Since 2005, I’ve built a career in the corporate world, but my most valuable lessons didn’t come from boardrooms or business meetings—they came from overcoming one of the toughest chapters in my life.
Through self-discovery, personal growth, and a commitment to lifelong learning, I found my purpose. Now, I’m driven to guide others through coaching, using the wisdom gained from my own journey to help them navigate challenges and unlock their full potential.
Here’s my story.
About Me
I’m a proud Nicosia, Cyprus native, born in 1980, I grew up at the crossroads of cultures, blending my mother’s Arabic traditions and heritage with the unique local influences of my island home. My multicultural heritage has shaped who I am, and I take immense pride in the diversity of my roots.
But life wasn’t always smooth. As a quiet, shy child with low confidence and self-esteem, I struggled to navigate big emotions and often bottled them up. This led to overthinking, people-pleasing, and a constant chase for external validation. I envied the outgoing, confident kids, wishing I could be like them but not knowing where to start.
At home, I was caught between two distinct parental influences: my father’s strict, authoritative presence and my mother’s warm, nurturing love. These dynamics taught me early lessons about relationships and shaped my perspective on leadership and life.
The family business, a meat-processing venture founded by my grandfather, became a significant part of my upbringing. Helping out in the factory and spending time with the hardworking employees who shared invaluable life lessons. From them, I learned resilience, humility, and how people wanted to be treated, while my father taught me both the value of hard work and the kind of leader I didn’t want to become.
The Leadership Awakening
My academic journey was steady, achieving average to good grades, but it was life’s experiences that truly shaped me.
After graduating high school in 1999, I completed 26 months of mandatory military service in the Cypriot National Guard. Those years tested me in ways I hadn’t imagined. Leadership in the army seemed different at first, but I later realized it shared a universal truth: leadership isn’t about authority, rank or role—it’s about service, care, inspiring and empowering others.
In 2001, I embarked on a new adventure, attending university in New Jersey, USA. The vibrant, multicultural environment was life-changing. I gained independence, experienced new cultures, and started to grow into the person I aspired to be. By the time I graduated in 2005 with a Management degree, I had a new perspective on life, leadership, and personal growth.
Returning home, I joined the family business, working alongside my father and brother. Despite many lessons learned, our visions clashed, and in 2011, I made the difficult decision to leave the family business. This marked the beginning of my journey through different industries, from manufacturing, to logistics, to IT. Each role expanded my understanding of leadership, highlighting the importance of people—showing me that at its core is what motivates them, what they value, their needs, their dreams and how to bring out their best self.
Finding My True Purpose
In 2018, life took a toll. I felt unfulfilled, disconnected, and stuck in a routine that drained my energy. Relationships suffered, and I couldn’t pinpoint the source of my unhappiness. That’s when I hit a roadblock.
Therapy became my turning point. Over three years, I embarked on a journey of healing and rediscovering myself. Through podcasts, books, workshops, and seminars, I uncovered the life skills our education system often overlooks: communication, emotional intelligence, parenting, vulnerability, leadership, and more. I realized I’d been living for others, without boundaries, and allowing toxic influences into my life.
That realization sparked change. I learned to say “no” to others and “yes” to myself, set boundaries, and surrounding myself with people who uplifted and inspired me. Slowly, I reclaimed control of my life and discovered my passion for growth and helping others evolve.
My Coaching Journey
In 2021, I found my calling in coaching—a practice that combined my passion for personal growth and leadership with my drive to help others transform their lives.
By 2024, I had achieved the prestigious ICF Professional Certified Coach (PCC) credential, a milestone that solidified my commitment to guiding business owners and middle managers toward becoming impactful leaders.
Why I Do What I Do
Looking back, I realize how different my life could have been if I’d had access to the knowledge and skills I’ve now gained. That’s why I’m dedicated to passing on this wisdom. Whether it’s helping younger generations build a strong foundation or supporting current Leaders in finding a fresh perspective. My mission is to empower Leaders to be more impactful, get recognized and be seen.
Ready to Stand Out?
Are you a motivated business owner or a middle manager ready to elevate your Leadership? Do you want to inspire trust, make a lasting impact and finally be seen and recognized for the Leader that you truly are?
Let’s work together! Coaching is your opportunity to unlock your potential, achieve your goals, stand out from the crowd and Lead with clarity and purpose. Reach out today and let’s start your journey to a more fulfilling future.
